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Wednesday, January 1, 2025

2024 Year Review

I cannot believe we are starting this year in Fargo, North Dakota but here we are on this crazy adventure we call life. I knew that moving could be a possibility but I really thought we would have one more year in Texas, and then I was hoping that if we did move it would be to Utah. But life has its way of showing us that things don't always go as we imagined but that it could be just as good and sometimes even better.

Going from Texas to North Dakota has been a drastic weather change but so far we do enjoy it here. We definitely miss New Braunfels and the endless swimming, but most of all we miss all our old friends there. I'm sure one day I'll be saying the same thing for Fargo, but Texas is going to be hard to beat. Looking back at this past year I'm happy with how we spent our last six months in Texas. I'm especially glad we took that Houston trip in January for the Cleveland Browns game because it really did turn out to be a once in a lifetime experience, at least for us. I'm also glad we went back to Houston the week of the Total Eclipse to experience NASA. We almost didn't, thinking we would have more time later to cross that off of our list. I feel like we did almost everything we wanted to aside from going to Big Bend National Park. It still would be great if we could go back and do that one day. Now we're starting a new year in a new place with a new bucketlist of adventures we want to cross off.

JANUARY - We started off the year right by going to Sea World on New Year's Day. We thought it would be crowded but it wasn't at all which was awesome for us. I went to Wicked with some good friends in San Antonio and then the following weekend we all went as a family to a last minute getaway in Houston for the Browns playoff game. We then got back to New Braunfels to find ice everywhere, which sounds silly now that we're in Fargo experiencing real cold but at the time I thought it was pretty cool to record.
FEBRUARY - Hudson finally lost his first tooth. He was super excited about that. We celebrated Valentine's Day by going to my favorite restaurant ever. Every state should have a Chuy's. I also celebrated Galentine's Day by going on a ghost tour with some friends where we walked around San Antonio, including the Alamo. We didn't see any ghosts but had a lot of fun. After nearly ten STRAIGHT years of diapers we finally got out of that stage when Rylee and Quinn were both officially potty trained! Danny did the math and concluded that we have spent over $10,000 on diapers and wipes over the years. We're really glad to be out of that stage. The girls also continued their big month by turning THREE! We love them so much. Happy birthday sweet girls.
MARCH - All of our Saturdays were about to fill up with soccer games so we started off our first Saturday of the month going swimming before the soccer chaos all started. We also had a low key spring break by going hiking, rock climbing and getting ice cream before I flew to Utah for my brother's wedding. In between the temple sealing and the wedding reception I went into the credit union and completely paid off our van! It's been really nice having zero car payments. By the end of the month soccer games had started which kept us really busy. I turned 35 and sadly my brother-in-law James passed away after his battle with liver cancer and kidney disease. We ended the month by celebrating Easter with our usual traditions, mixed in with soccer and bluebonnets, while also trying to focus on Christ and the Atonement.
APRIL - We loved having Grandma Donna and Grandpa Dave come out to visit us. Their trip started with a Texas tornado watch warning, but we were able to enjoy the reason they came out here by escaping to Canyon Lake to experience the Total Eclipse. We took them on the Glass Bottom Boat tour and then decided to have the kids all skip school as we headed to Houston for another fun getaway where we got to check off NASA from our Texas bucketlist. I was also able to chaperone Grant's field trip to the Snake Farm Zoo.
MAY - We had a great Mother's Day. Grant graduated from Kindergarten. Addie and Hudson completed third and first grade, and it was bittersweet because by this point we knew it was their last year at Clear Spring Elementary since Danny was offered a job at NDSU. My nephew Caide tested positive for HDL2 and was admitted in a care center. The kids all finished their soccer season and we headed to the beach for a full fun day with the Olsens.
JUNE - This was our last full month in Texas and felt really busy. For Danny's birthday we drove to the Painted Porch where he got to meet Ryan Holiday. We celebrated Danny again on Father's Day. We had a family scare back in Utah that thankfully ended well. We officially found our new home in Fargo. Knowing we had weeks left we took advantage by going to the pool, Schlitterbahn, Landa Park, Sea World and the kids spent time with friends (Urban Air and the river). We also joined friends and went to the racetracks where we watched horses and ostriches race. We said goodbye to the Olsens and can't wait to get our families together again.
JULY - We finally floated the river as a family and regretted not doing it sooner. The 4th of July was our last full day in Texas and we got to spend it with good friends, before we headed out to our new adventure in Fargo. We crossed off nine new states moving from Texas to North Dakota which was awesome. Grant turned SIX years old! We also experienced the Blue Angels for the first time.
AUGUST - Grant lost his first tooth, and his second tooth, within days of each other. He hasn't lost any since then. Texas has bluebonnets and North Dakota has sunflowers. We were able to drive out to one of the many sunflower fields which was pretty cool. We had fun trying to catch and tag monarch butterflies, and we took advantage of the many different parks here as we tried to explore as much as we could. We were able to see the new school and meet the teachers at Centennial Elementary the day before the kids officially began a new school year as a first grader, second grader and fourth grader. Danny and I had our eleven year anniversary but since we just went through a huge move and have no family around we didn't really do anything crazy. In fact we went to a park as a family which was fine.
SEPTEMBER - We got to see the Oscar Meyer Wienermobile while it was passing through our new town. We then headed to Detroit Lakes which to this day is still one of my favorite things we've done so far since moving here. We had fun at the NDSU homecoming parade and Addie turned TEN years old.
OCTOBER - My parents drove through Fargo on their way back to Utah after their New York mission was completed and it was fun to have them here for a day before they continued on. We updated our family pictures and I love how they turned out, especially the ones with the kids as a group. We traded cleats to skates as the kids all started hockey and ice skating lessons. They loved it. We also experienced our first hockey game when we got tickets to watch the Fargo Force. We went to a pumpkin patch with our new friends which was nice, especially since it's been years since our last pumpkin patch adventure. And we dressed up as Marvel superheroes for our Halloween family theme this year.
NOVEMBER - The kids got their school pictures back and look so cute. Instead of continuing hockey we put the boys in Addie's ice skating lessons and all enjoyed it. The presidential election ended, but we don't really need to talk about that result, and BYU and Utah played each other which we also don't need to talk about that result haha. Okay, BYU won. The kids were really excited about our first snowfall here, especially Grant who we realize bare has any memory of snow since he was three when he last played in it. I went to a movie by myself for three hours to watch Wicked part one and I'm still counting down the days for part two. We also celebrated Thanksgiving by spending the day with some new friends (Erickson family) who we've really gotten to like.
DECEMBER - Hudson turned EIGHT! We are so proud of him. He had a great birthday. He also chose to be baptized into the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints and it was great to have my parents fly out here to be with us once again. With Oma and Opa here we celebrated an early Christmas which the kids all approved of. The twins also started a little preschool program which they really came to love but I think they're also not really sad that it was only a month long. I'm really glad to have them home with me again. We learned what the term snow squall meant and experienced our first real cold days here. The kids completed their ice skating lessons and all passed their courses, and we got to spend our first Christmas here in Fargo. Felix made it here and mentioned that he preferred our new place over the heat in Texas. We also added a new 'helper' this Christmas season. One of our family gifts was a membership to the Red River Zoo which we got to enjoy the day after Christmas. We ended the year helping Hudson recover from getting his tonsils and adenoids removed. It was an especially big month for that sweet boy.

Looking back now I can see it was a pretty big year for our family. At the start of the year I wrote about how we wanted to achieve our finance goals. One of those goals was to pay off the van by March and we were able to do that! We also wanted to be completely debt free with any credit cards and we would have reached that too if it wasn't for the move in the middle of the year. However, we should have all that paid off by next month which is awesome. We plan to save up our money for the next couple of months so that we can go to my family reunion this July and then after that our next step is to start knocking out our student loans. It would be amazing the day we finally are free from those. I wrote about my fitness goals which once again I ended the year not reaching it, however I'm actually feeling really confident about my ability to reach my goal and it's definitely going to happen in 2025. In last year's post I also mentioned that we didn't have any major travel plans (besides my solo trip to Utah) and that we just wanted to explore Texas, specifically Dallas to see my sister. When I had written that I didn't even know that within the month we would be doing a short getaway in Houston as a family or that we would finally go to Dallas and see my sister but that it would be on our way out of Texas. I also laugh now when I read this sentence "Will we be going to the neighboring states of Louisiana or Oklahoma this year? Most likely not but that's okay. There's still so much of Texas we haven't done. If Danny does get a job lined up at the completion of his post doc experience then we really want to see all that we can while we're here." Little did I know our time left in Texas wouldn't be long, we would get to see a lot but still have regrets on things we didn't get to do, we didn't go to Louisiana but we did go through Oklahoma as well as eight other states. It was a cool year for our 50 states checklist, that's for sure.

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This year I think it's safe to say we won't be moving. I think we'll be able to enjoy a full year here in Fargo before we start thinking about what's next. I do plan on reaching my fitness goal. We should be credit card debt free by next month, and hopefully making payments on our student loans this year. As far as traveling goes we have a reunion in Bear Lake that we are looking forward to. I'd love to cross off a new state for Rylee and Quinn and it would be awesome if we can make a trip to Canada sometime marking a new country for Danny and the kids. I'd also love to go to the Mall of America for the first time, but we'll have to see how we can fit all these things into this year. We're excited to get to know this area really well and to make the most of our time here. We're ready for you 2025.

Our 2024 year with only scenic pictures.
 
2023 Year Review                                        

Monday, January 1, 2024

2023 Year Review

We have been in Texas over a year now and we've grown to really love our new state. It was a year of exploring, sports, beaches and a surprise trip back to Utah that we never imagined would have happened at the beginning of last year or even just three to four months ago.


The kids all love it here, the weather is mostly great and it's going to be hard to one day leave New Braunfels. We had an amazing year. We built and strengthened new friendships that have only added joy to our year. We reached goals and fell short on others. We got a second job and Danny gained more experience teaching. Looking back on these past twelve months only bring back smiles which is nice to think about now because in hindsight I know we definitely had trials. It's good to know the overall feelings for the year outweigh the hard moments we might have had.

JANUARY - We experienced our first Texas January which basically is just a month of the most amazing weather. It's like a prolonged fall season. Instead of winter the weather stays around 75° although we did get plenty of days where it was in the 80's. It felt amazing. Grant went on his first ever bus ride for his school field trip. I was able to live out my mom dreams and chaperone him and his cute class. It was also a big month for the twins as we finally got rid of all the binkies in the house. That's a bittersweet milestone. It's weird to think that we won't ever have our own little baby needing those anymore.
FEBRUARY - After experiencing a very warm January we jumped right into the weirdest 'winter storm' where the kids basically had a whole week off from school because it was cold. It was pretty comical and one that we won't forget. We of course celebrated Valentine's Day and I did a cute little photoshoot with the twins because why not? Addie joined her first ever sports team playing soccer and the Olsens invited us to join them on an adventure to Palmetto State Park. February will always have a special place in my heart for the babies of our family who this year turned TWO! We didn't have a huge party but we did celebrate with a little Twincess theme.
MARCH - March was so fun! Danny's parents flew out here and treated us to an amazing spring break vacation. We thought that would be our only family vacation of the year and if it would have been we would have been very happy with it. It started off rough with some sick kids and cold wind but we're so glad it happened. We explored Corpus Christi and the surroundings and Grant still talks about that vacation house ten months later. We celebrated St. Patrick's day with a game based off my childhood traditions and hope to incorporate it into now the kid's childhood traditions. I turned 34 years old and we finally used that as an excuse to explore San Antonio as tourists do. We also experienced our first Blue Bonnet season.
APRIL - We celebrated Easter with our usual traditions and went down memory lane. We finally registered our cars in Texas and switched out our old Utah plates for new Texas ones.
MAY - I was able to join Hudson on his field trip to the Animal World and Snake Farm Zoo. Mother's Day was perfect and amazing. Addie graduated from second grade on the All A Honor Roll and we couldn't be more proud of her. The boys graduated from kindergarten and preschool with the cutest graduation ceremonies. The last day of school snuck up on us real fast and I was excited to have them home again.
JUNE - This month was full of water fun. We played at the splash pad, the beach, the pool, the water park, and also went to different rivers for Danny's birthday and Father's Day. Danny is now 34 and we couldn't be more blessed for the man that he is. He took on a second job that we believed would be temporary at the time however he's still currently doing it two nights a week. He sacrifices so much and we appreciate all of his hard work. Another little hard worker is our little Grant. He wants to be just like Addie and Hudson and has become quite the little reader. I love it so much.
JULY - We celebrated Independence Day with great friends and had a blast spending the day at Aquatica for Grand Bean turning Five! Some of the kids were able to join Danny for some one on one time where he took them to his campus for the day and I completed my personal book goals challenge.
AUGUST - We had an awesome month and also a little financial trial that I didn't get into any details about but it did make the second job stick around for a little longer. Turns out that job was a real blessing in disguise. But first we hit our year mark here in Texas where it's honestly been great. The twins had their first movie experience. Danny and I went on our first kidless vacation to celebrate TEN YEARS together and it was amazing. It was during that trip that we learned about a minor financial setback but we were able to set that stress aside and enjoy our time together. We got back in time for the kids to meet their new teachers and head back to a new school year. Addie is now in third grade, Hudson is in first grade and Grant is in Kindergarten. It's just me and the twins now at home. We were able to also return to Bobcat Stadiumfor Danny's work dinner. That's always a fun time.
SEPTEMBER - We jumped back into the world of sports as Addie returned to soccer and Hudson started flag football. Addie had a friend pool party to celebrate her birthday this year. I can't believe she's NINE
OCTOBER - We might have started a new birthday tradition with lunch dates. School pictures were sent home. We watched the Annular Eclipse. I first started imagining a possibility of spending Christmas in Utah. We swam in the pool for the last time this season. We celebrated Halloween with possibly our favorite family theme yet. Doing Harry Potter ended up being perfect.
NOVEMBER - Addie and Hudson both finished off their sports seasons. Addie scored in her last game and her team went on to play in a tournament. Hudson's team had a fun undefeated season. We officially decided that we would be flying out to Utah for Christmas making it a first for four of the five kids. We don't regret this decision at all. Grant got his school pictures retaken and it turned out so cute. Also cute was Rylee's obsession with her hat. It lasted for months. We had our second Friendsgiving with the Olsens and this time it was friends of theirs that hosted us. Hudson and I celebrated his birthday a little early with our school lunch date.
DECEMBER Hudson turned SEVEN! We were able to celebrate him a Jungle Jams. Felix returned on time. The kids met Texas Santa again along with the Grinch. We got our family portraits taken by the amazing Chelsea Olsen and they turned out fantastic. Hudson got accepted into the Gifted and Talented program at school. We celebrated Christmas early here in Texas and then headed to Utah for eleven unbelievable days. It was the perfect way to end this year we've had.

Last year  I wrote about hoping to end the year of 2023 in good ol' Texas. I'm so glad that happened. It's been so great starting our second year here. We've recently started looking at jobs for the fall of 2024 and if that happens it would honestly be hard to leave this place. We'll see what happens. We have our post doc contract through the summer of 2025 so the next step is getting closer in sight which is crazy. I also wrote about how I was excited to celebrate our ten year anniversary and vaguely wrote about my vision of the video I had been working on over the last ten years. I was able to find someone to help me put it together and I'm so proud of the way it was completed. Last year we talked about taking time to explore Texas and we were able to do that starting off with our spring break in Corpus Christi; and then with our anniversary trip Danny and I explored bits of Austin, Houston, and Galveston. I was hoping to also maybe leave the state and head into Louisiana. I had no idea that the state we would leave Texas for was going to be Utah. It was incredible. Last year I set some fitness and financial goals as well. I didn't quite hit my fitness goal. Actually it was the opposite. I actually came home from our Utah trip weighing more than I did at the beginning of the year haha but you know what? I actually don't even feel bad about it. I'm resetting the goals and this year I'm hoping to achieve it. With our finances I wrote that we hoped to have the van paid off within fifteen months. I guess that would go into this March and we might actually still hit that goal. It would be amazing if we can.

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I'll carry those fitness and financial goals into this year. I have twelve months to really tackle some personal fitness goals and with our 2024 Halloween theme in mind I have some extra motivation haha. I would still love to have our van paid off by March and I think we can do it. Aside from student loans that is our biggest debt and then we'd really be able to focus on getting completely debt free. I can't wait for that day, although it won't be this year. If we can end 2024 with zero car payments and zero credit debt (we used credit for part of our recent flight expenses) that would be amazing. Those student loans will be the only thing in our way by the end of the year, I'm manifesting that now. This year I don't have any crazy trips planned out in my mind. I will be going to Utah for my brother's wedding and I almost got a ticket for Hudson to join me this time. It would have been amazing for us to go together especially since he is turning eight this year and Addie coincidently went me with to a brother's wedding the year she turned eight. However, we're still paying off our Utah trip that we just had or it would be a done deal. We do want to explore more of Texas. Specifically Dallas. I have a sister out there and it's about time we finally go there as a family, even if it's just a quick weekend getaway. We'd also love to take the kids to Houston and even to Galveston just as Danny and I had done. Will we be going to the neighboring states of Louisiana or Oklahoma this year? Most probably not but that's okay. There's still so much of Texas we haven't done. If Danny does get a job lined up at the completion of his post doc experience then we really want to see all that we can while we're here. 2024 we're excited to see how this year pans out because we loved 2023.                                          

Sunday, January 1, 2023

2022 Year Review

This year was huge for us. It was huge for Danny! We are so proud of him. His years of hard work has paid off and led us to where we are now today. Danny I love you, thank you for one of the greatest years yet.


As good and life changing as this year was it did still come with some lows and losses. We lost two very special people (Grandma Rueckert and Camila) and we gained two new little angels (Skylar and Thomas) plus a new sister in law (Aide). 

JANUARY - Crazy to think that on January of last year I was huge and pregnant and on January of this year I had two almost one year olds. Grant became a sunbeam and graduated from nursery. He was so ready for that. Addie also got glasses, although she barely ever wears them anymore these days.
FEBRUARY - We celebrated Valentine's day early just because we wanted to. The biggest thing was the twins turning ONE! We loved celebrating their first birthday with a Twinkle Twinkle Little Star theme.
MARCH - This year was our first encounter with possibly a leprechaun. I have a feeling it won't be our last. I turned 33 and we celebrated with a nice Saturday in Park City. Addie presented on her Great Brains project.
APRIL - We released Addie's butterflies. This month was very busy for Addie. She learned how to ride a bike and she had so many school events in this month alone. The biggest one was her Cinderella play. The kids began swim lessons. The biggest event was that Danny was offered a job in Texas! The kids also had a grandkid day put on by my parents.
MAY - Grant got accepted into BYU's preschool program! We had to turn it down but it was fun that he got into it. Addie had a final Cinderella play at her school. Just like in April Addie had another busy month at school with seven different events going on. The twins were so good about being dragged everywhere. Hudson and Grant both graduated from preschool and Addie had her last day of school at Provost. This month ended with the sad passing of three of our chickens. It was a hard goodbye.
JUNE - This month was huge for Danny. First off, he turned 33! We ate at his favorite place, Wingers. He defended his dissertation and officially became Dr. Daniel Ferguson. We announced to everyone that we were moving. We celebrated Father's day and then we had a fun vacation with my side of the family in St. George.
JULY - We officially signed a lease for a house in New Braunfels, TX. We celebrated the 4th with a parade, friends, and lots of family. Danny flew to Minnesota for a conference. Addie and I got in one last girl's night with Jill and Georgia before we moved. Grant Bean turned FOUR! We partied with a paw patrol water party and spent his day with butterflies. We made sure Hudson was officially Kindergarten ready. My Grandma Rueckert returned to Heaven where she was eager to be. We said goodbye to our loved ones and home.
AUGUST - We moved to Texas! We explored Danny's new campus. Found ways to stay sane until our moving truck arrived. We met Addie's and Hudson's new teachers. We had the coolest experience at Bobcat Stadium. We went to the beach for the first time in Texas. We received our family pictures that we had taken in June. Danny and I celebrated our nine year anniversary with the kids. Addie and Hudson had their first day of school! Addie is now a second grader and Hudson is in Kindergarten. Grant had a hard time with his older siblings being gone so we took him on a glass bottom boat tour.
SEPTEMBER - Rylee and Quinn joined nursery! They hated it at first. Grant got accepted into preschool at Clear Springs. He LOVES it. Addie turned EIGHT! The two of us got to fly to Utah for my brother's wedding and she loved having her birthday back in Utah. It was such a special time for the both of us.
OCTOBER - Addie was baptized! My parents flew in for the occasion and were able to see our new place. The kids got their school pictures back. I can't believe I have three kids in school. Hudson gained some confidence with being in the pool. I did a third series of Grant and costumes and it's possibly the last year of it. It turned out really cute. Our family theme was Toy Story and I loved how perfect it was for the kids. This was our first Halloween in Texas and it turned out great. Addie was also awarded the Stallion of the first nine weeks of school.
NOVEMBER - My sister Camila passed away after years of suffering from HDL2. I kept myself busy with her obituary and funeral details and dealt with the new reality of grief. We also celebrated Thanksgiving with good friends which was nice since we didn't have family around.
DECEMBER - Hudson turned SIX! He's still the sweetest kid ever. We started using our new Sea World's pass and went twice. Felix found us in Texas which the kids were worried that he wouldn't. The kids met Santa and even the Grinch. Addie had a second grade performance and we had our first Christmas here in Texas.

At the beginning of last year I had said that I was excited to see where Danny's schooling takes him. We didn't know if he was even going to graduate early or not. It was four years into his five year program so the possibility of us staying at BYU for another year was very real and honestly comforting. I was able to picture Hudson joining Addie at Provost, and hoping that Grant would get into the BYU preschool program. It felt comfortable and it felt safe. I was also excited about the possibility of moving and taking steps forward in our next phase of life. I didn't know if we would be living in Washington State or near the tip of Maine. I was also really looking forward to our big family vacation because I wanted the kids to have those special family memories in case we did move away from aunts, uncles and cousins. I was looking forward to hitting personal goals and looked forward to see if Addie would choose to be baptized in our church. Everything turned out exactly how it was supposed to. Danny found out in April about the job offer and it became official when he did graduate with his PhD. We moved to Texas after having such a blast with family during our vacation. We got settled and we've made this new place feel like home. I feel good about where I'm at in my fitness journey and Addie had a beautiful baptism.


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This year I'm excited to continue with my fitness goals. We also have financial goals which include having the van paid off in the next 15 months. We're actually hoping even sooner than that but we'll see. This year will be our ten year anniversary and I'm hoping that we'll be able to celebrate it in a special way. I've had an idea that I've been working since the beginning of our marriage and I'm hoping to have it put together as a gift for Danny. He has no idea about it and I'm excited to see this vision I have come to life somehow. I'm looking forward to taking a trip this year. I usually have an idea of what that would look like but so far I have no idea. I'm leaning towards mostly exploring Texas while we're here but if it's possible I'd love to go to Louisiana since it's the closest state to us. Grant will be a kindergartner this fall which is crazy to me. I'll have three gone all day in school and it will be just the twins and I. I'm looking forward to taking full advantage of that time with just them since life moves by so fast and in a blink of an eye they will also be gone in school all day. I'm also looking forward to starting our second year in Texas. If a job becomes available than great but I'm really content with the idea of not moving just yet. I would love to end the year of 2023 still living in good ol' Texas.
                                                   

Saturday, January 1, 2022

2021 Year Review

This year has been so good to us. We had some hard times financially but the best things to happen to us came in the form of two very healthy perfect babies. Our lives have been greatly enriched because of them joining our family.


I decided on the above picture but I also really loved the last four pictures in the one below. That photoshoot turned out so cute.

JANUARY - I started my first non stress tests for the babies and I had such anxiety that they wouldn't cook long enough in there. I was also very uncomfortable and at 28 weeks my belly was measuring 37 weeks which is crazy to think about now. Luckily I was able to stay pregnant for the entire month.
FEBRUARY - We bought a new family van which would fit our entire family and it was good we did because the babies were born at the end of February. Their birth and the fact that they were so healthy was the best thing about 2021 hands down. We love them so much. Our last holiday before the girls were born was Valentine's Day and the kids were spoiled with new Pokemon plushies.
MARCH - We got pictures taken with the five kids and I love how they turned out. We were slowly adjusting to being a family of seven and our first errands out of the house was to the dentist. It was Grant's first visit and he did awesome. The girl's first holiday was St. Patrick's Day and we finally got our surprise twin birth reaction video back. I love that video so much and will cherish it forever. I also turned 32 and got to meet my new niece Haivyn for the first time.
APRIL - It's been a full year and we are still not back to in person church. The kids did start virtual primary though which is great. We were also very exhausted and in our sleep deprived state switched the babies up. We're still experiencing effects of the pandemic and enjoyed Easter at home and it turned out very nice. Also the babies in their bunny outfits are to die for. They were so adorable in it.
MAY - This was a busy fun month. We started out by having the twins babysat for the first time while we took the three to Golden Coral. It was such a needed family outing. I finally wrote down a deep seated dilemma that was in my heart and today I can say that I haven't worried about that since writing it down although it will probably stay with me deep down for a long time. I feel great about where we are at with my family. I experienced Mother's Day for the first time as a mother of five. I still can't believe that we had five kids in six years. I love it. The babies were blessed and Addie graduated kindergarten. The month ended with Rylee having another hip dysplasia doctor visit.
JUNE - We got the news that Hudson was accepted into BYU's preschool program and we are so excited for him. We celebrated Danny turning 32 and two days later went with everyone to the zoo which the kids loved. We surprised Dad this Father's Day with a video that the kids acted in and it turned out so cute.
JULY - Baby Bean turned Three! We celebrated him with a Blippi party. We celebrated the 4th of July which is always fun even if we decided to keep it really low key this year and I ventured out and took three of the kids to the movies. It was the first time for both Hudson and Grant and the experience was so great to have together. The month also ended in a traumatic way with an accident that took several lives of people I knew and it changed my perspective for how I see time with my own family. I definitely cherish it even more deeply these days.
AUGUST - We had to cancel our planned vacation but still had fun with a staycation! Addie started first grade which is just crazy that I have a kid in full day school now. I miss her but she's loving it. We had family pictures updated and Danny and I celebrated eight whole years of marriage!
SEPTEMBER - Addisyn turned 7! I can't believe she's so big now. She was surrounded by both friends and family for her birthday. Hudson started preschool and super loved his first day. Addie and Hudson both got to go to Splash Summit for Georgia's birthday and had so much fun. We had to get rid of Edith because it turns out she's actually a He and we gained Scarlett a new hen for us. It's been 18 months since the pandemic first effected us and we're back to in person church but have been asked to continue with wearing masks.
OCTOBER - This is always my most favorite month because it's full of different fall parties and activities. We had our traditional Jakers outing and it's crazy how this might be our last time for awhile if we move. I did a second year of costume ideas with a mini Halloween Series featuring Grant and I'm not sure we'll be able to top this year's with another one. Our family theme for the year was Wild Animals and their zoo keepers and seeing the babies in their first costumes was the best thing ever. Also I got Addie's first school picture ever and I can't get over how grown she is. I love this month and I love my kids so much.
NOVEMBER - I was able to visit my sister Camila who is still alive although not doing well. I am extra attentive with every visit as I know it could be the last. The kids had a primary program which I always love watching. Grant didn't like that he wasn't a part of it though. I can't wait to see him up there next year. We used our Thanksgiving Point pass for the first time with the Butterfly Biosphere exhibit and had a really good time and we ended the month picking out a real live Christmas tree for our house this year.
DECEMBER - Hudson is now 5! He's the sweetest kid ever. We also said hello to Felix who joined our crew this year. We decorated cookies with Oma and Opa, had so many parties, went to the Dinosaur Museum, watched Home Alone and celebrated Christmas Eve and Christmas as a family of seven for the first time.

Last year at the end of 2020  I was very pregnant and still keeping the twins a secret from our families. In my year review blog post this is what I wrote at the end -

"This year I'm highly looking forward to March where we will be done with this final pregnancy and our family will be complete. Currently my body is stretched to the max but to know that we'll be experiencing the newborn stage again and adding pieces of heaven into our lives and family has me both giddy and nervous. I know we'll have some rough months adjusting to little sleep but after 2020 I feel like we can accomplish anything. Addie is so ecstatic to not be the only girl anymore and I cannot wait to see how Addie, Hudson and Grant adjust to what our family is going to look like. I'm also looking forward to Danny completing another year of school because we're now past the halfway point of his PhD experience and that's exciting. I'm excited to hopefully fit in a small family trip. I understand this year might be a little crazy because of the newborn life but I'm hoping that maybe I can make something happen. I'm thinking a possible trip to St. George but we'll see how much sleep we can get this year first. I'm looking forward to Addie starting first grade and Hudson starting preschool. Grant should be getting potty trained soon and he's already showing signs of interest. Truthfully I'm also looking forward to having a new President at the end of this month and I'm hopeful that he can bring some unity to our country. Also I'm looking forward to getting a new vehicle because ours isn't going to meet all our needs and is already struggling. 2020 we grew closer because of all you brought and we're really excited for what 2021 has in store."

It's funny now how cryptic I was trying to be by emphasizing how hard 'newborn' life would be when really what I wanted to say was that we would be adjusting to two babies. I mean we've done the newborn stage three times before so if it was just one baby I wouldn't have made that sound like a big deal. Now here we are at the end of another year and we have almost one year olds. It's crazy how fast this year flew by. We didn't go to St. George like I mentioned but we did squeeze in a little family staycation which turned out to be fun. It also helps knowing that we're for sure taking a trip to St. George next summer with my side of the family. Danny is near the end of his PhD program and could be graduating early next Summer. We're in the thick of applying to jobs across the country and it's both exciting and nerve-wrecking. By this time next year we might be living in a different state which is crazy to even think about. Addie is in first grade and loving it and Hudson is really enjoying preschool at BYU. Grant got potty trained super fast at the beginning of the year and rocked at it. We got a new van which the process of doing so was horrible but we eventually got it all worked out after spending way more than we wanted to. It fits us all though which is awesome because there's seven of us. SEVEN of us! I had to repeat that because it's still so surreal. I love my tribe with my hardworking husband and amazing five kids. Even though life can be a rollercoaster I'm glad I'm experiencing it with my favorite people.

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This year I'm excited to see where Danny's schooling takes him. He could potentially graduate just four years into his grad school which is a whole year earlier than originally planned. Thank you Vanuatu. He's applying to places now and we haven't heard back yet but the possibilities are endless. He's applying everywhere from Washington state to the tip of Maine. If he doesn't graduate this year then I'm really looking forward to having Addie continue schooling at Provost Elementary with Hudson joining her this year. I'm so thrilled with her experience there so far. I'm signing Grant up for preschool at BYU and I'd love to have him go there if we stay another year. I'm looking forward to our big family trip this summer at St. George. It will be with my siblings and parents and I can't wait for my kids to enjoy several days back to back getting to bond with their cousins. I'm also excited to hit some personal goals as well. The year 2022 is going to be about me feeling like myself. I'm no longer sharing my body with anyone and definitely feel done with any future pregnancies so I'm ready to gain back confidence and get fit for good. I'm also very very excited for Addie and for a potential choice she might be personally making. She turns eight this year and could be getting baptized as a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. If she does this will be a very big thing in her life and I'm excited to see her become ready for it.                                                               

Friday, January 1, 2021

2020 Year Review

2020 was supposed to be our big year of travel, and it started out that way when Danny traveled to London and California last January. Instead it turned into our long year of staying home more than ever before and somehow that turned out to be the best thing for our family. We saw less of others but learned more about ourselves.

Nationwide 2020 was a pretty tumultuous year. It was filled with political divisiveness and a lot of contention. Utah even experienced an earthquake which was crazy. This year was filled with riots all throughout the country and poor leadership was showcased by the current US President. The election was messy and social media turned into an online war among friends and family. But it was also filled with miracles and more time available for families to spend more time together than people have had in a long time. Church was cancelled, school was closed, a lot of businesses were shut down and 2020 will not be a year that people will soon forget. 

The country suffered but we weren't left completely alone from God's love. At the end of last year the Come Follow Me program was introduced which is a miracle in itself because when church's were closed we already had an at home program to follow. Schools were frantic trying to come up with a system that would work for them but the church was able to continue without hiccup because they had implemented a program before it was even necessary to have. God knows all things and this is just a small example of that.

Although the country suffered, for us it was a year of closeness. Danny spent a lot of time at home with us and we all grew closer together. A lot of our traditions didn't happen and we didn't take our highly anticipated European trip but we still managed to do something fun at least once a month to get the kids out of the house. It was actually a personal good year. It was for sure very unique and we received the surprise of our lives that I don't think would have happened when it did if it wasn't for the pandemic and the quarantine that took place. This is a glimpse of the year we had. 


JANUARY - Danny was able to travel to London and California. Covid had begun spreading in other parts of the world but hadn't reached the United States yet. Hudson also became a Sunbeam! Who would have thought that he only would be able to adjust to it for three months before in person church was cancelled. 
FEBRUARY - We thought for sure that Addie's appendix burst but luckily it hadn't and we were able to resolve it. This happened within a week of Hudson and Grant being really sick. Grant was finally weaned and sleep trained and we enjoyed Valentine's Day as a family.
MARCH - The world went on lockdown and I turned 31 at the start of a pandemic. Churches and temples closed down, school turned into online and small stores and almost all restaurants were shut down. We also experienced an earthquake and it seemed like the world was falling apart but we also found ways to keep us busy and entertained. 
APRIL - Addie finished off her preschool experience with at home learning and the boys got some quarantined haircuts.
MAY - After two months the order was slightly lifted and we were able to see family outside of our household. We saw family again on Mother's Day and I got a sweet video directed by Addie of Danny. I also tried something called the food challenge with the boys and loved both of their reactions.
JUNE - June is always a special month because it's Danny's month. We get to celebrate his birthday and shortly after it's Father's Day. We also thought we'd be saying goodbye to my sister Camila but she miraculously survived the year of 2020 even with testing positive for Covid herself. Addie also graduated from her second preschool as she was enrolled in two different programs.
JULY - Baby Bean turned TWO! We also found out that we are pregnant and will be growing our family! We of course celebrated Independence Day. Our European trip was cancelled but that's okay. We found out that Grandma Judy had passed away.
AUGUST - We moved! We're still in Provo and in a home that will be a better size for our growing family. We also received some pretty big news about this pregnancy. We experienced the first break in the family with Hudson's collar bone. Addie started Kindergarten! We also celebrated our seven year anniversary as a family at the zoo.
SEPTEMBER - Addisyn turned 6! We were able to celebrate her birthday with others amidst this pandemic and also announced our pregnancy to others. 
OCTOBER - This year we dressed up as different Pokemon characters and the kids loved it. I also did a 21 day mini Halloween series featuring the three kids and we figured out a way to still do Trick or Treating.
NOVEMBER - We finally went on a vacation for the year! We also celebrated Thanksgiving with just us at home and it might have been our favorite one.
DECEMBER - Hudson turned 4! We had a socially distanced visit with Santa and enjoyed Christmas day as our last one as a family of five. Danny passed his oral examination which was a HUGE relief.

In last year's review I said that I was looking forward to hopefully moving to a different house, studying the Book of Mormon, a lot of traveling for both Danny and I, weaning and sleep training Grant and possibly getting pregnant. Well that last one was something I was hoping for haha Danny was hoping another one would be added to our family in three years and we know what happened with that. We did move and it was such perfect timing for us. We studied the Book of Mormon but could have done better near the end of the year with staying consistent. Danny did travel to London and California but his trip to Florida was cancelled. We were planning on exploring five countries in Europe (Finland, Estonia, Russia, Sweden and Netherlands) and that didn't happen as well. Even though some things didn't go according to plan we did get amazing news about our growing family and we thrived with the Stay At Home Order. Danny passed his oral examination which was a huge relief and I honestly couldn't be happier with how our family did together during this hard year. I do wish the country was in a better loving state of mind but within the walls of my own home we did pretty great. 

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This year I'm highly looking forward to March where we will be done with this final pregnancy and our family will be complete. Currently my body is stretched to the max but to know that we'll be experiencing the newborn stage again and adding pieces of heaven into our lives and family has me both giddy and nervous. I know we'll have some rough months adjusting to little sleep but after 2020 I feel like we can accomplish anything. Addie is so ecstatic to not be the only girl anymore and I cannot wait to see how Addie, Hudson and Grant adjust to what our family is going to look like. I'm also looking forward to Danny completing another year of school because we're now past the halfway point of his PhD experience and that's exciting. I'm excited to hopefully fit in a small family trip. I understand this year might be a little crazy because of the newborn life but I'm hoping that maybe I can make something happen. I'm thinking a possible trip to St. George but we'll see how much sleep we can get this year first. I'm looking forward to Addie starting first grade and Hudson starting preschool. Grant should be getting potty trained soon and he's already showing signs of interest. Truthfully I'm also looking forward to having a new President at the end of this month and I'm hopeful that he can bring some unity to our country. Also I'm looking forward to getting a new vehicle because ours isn't going to meet all our needs and is already struggling. 2020 we grew closer because of all you brought and we're really excited for what 2021 has in store.

Wednesday, January 1, 2020

End Of A Decade - The Last Ten Years

I do yearly reviews however this is my first time doing a decade review. Here's my last ten years at a glance.

2010 - I served a mission for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints in Belo Horizonte, Brazil.

2011 - I returned home from my mission and started my last semester at the University of Utah.

2012 - I met Daniel George Ferguson.

2013 - Danny and I were married in the Salt Lake City Temple.

2014 - Addisyn Rae Ferguson was born.

2015 - We moved from Mapleton to Orem.

2016 - Hudson Daniel Ferguson was born.

2017 - Danny graduated with his undergrad at UVU.

2018 - Grant Alexander Ferguson was born. Danny was accepted into BYU's PhD program and we moved to Provo.

2019 - I learned that I can do hard things and that I can be independent. Both things were huge realizations for me.

2020 - to be written . . . .

2019 Year Review

2019 started off bittersweet with news of a death in the family however it turned out to be an amazing year. The biggest thing that happened is definitely the growth that cane from Danny being in Vanuatu for seven weeks with very limited communication and if we had to do it again - we would. Even though we weren't together we grew closer because of it. This has been one of the greatest years yet and we had a lot of fun. Another fun highlight for our family was taking our trip to Yellowstone and Bear Lake and enjoying time in three different states (Idaho, Montana and Wyoming). Halloween is also another personal highlight for me but the one that I know the whole family would agree on was our spontaneous trip to Salina, Ut. That was a lot of fun. I don't really have any regrets about this year at all and love where we currently are in life.

JANUARY - We did start off the year literally on day one of 2019 with the news of the passing of my Uncle Mike. That wasn't an incredible memory but it is something I want remembered. Grant also spent the end of the month sick with RSV so we fit in an endless supply of cuddles with that sweet boy.
FEBRUARY - This year Danny completely surprised our family with little Valentine's Day gifts. He's not really a planner so this really did catch me by surprise.
MARCH - I turned 30! This was a big milestone for me! Actually my one regret for the entire year was how we spent my birthday but that's okay. I still tried to make it special even though this is a sore subject for me to think or talk about so I probably won't get into detail with this one. I also wrote a fun little thirty facts about myself.
APRIL - The day finally came for Danny to leave to Vanuatu. He spent seven weeks doing research the islands over there for BYU. It turned out to be an unforgettable experience for him.
MAY - I spent Mother's Day quietly at home with just me and the three kids. It was hard but they made me feel special in their own little ways. Addie also had a little cousin princess date where she had a lot of fun.
JUNE - Danny returned from his research trip and we were excited to have him back. He was also gone for his birthday so I planned a surprise party for him a week after he was home and he didn't expect it at all.
JULY - Baby Bean turned ONE
AUGUST - My side of the family had a large family reunion at Bear Lake and then we continued our vacation and headed to Yellowstone. We had an awesome time. We also celebrated six years of marriage. I also officially met my biological cousin for the first time.
SEPTEMBER - Addisyn turned 5! She had a Pokemon themed birthday party and also started preschool at BYU.
OCTOBER - This year our annual family theme costume was Addie's idea and we dressed as The Incredibles. This month is also when our spontaneous trip happened to Salina where we had so much fun. Hudson also had a huge milestone happen when he decided to potty train himself.
NOVEMBER - We celebrated Thanksgiving with the Ferguson side of the family and enjoyed having family time.
DECEMBER - Hudson turned 3! He had a three rex party. We also celebrated Christmas by staying at home all day with three very sick kids.

In last year's review I said that I was looking forward to our family vacation to Bear Lake and Yellowstone, not being pregnant and reaching personal fitness goals. I also said I was excited for Danny to complete his first year of grad school, and for me to finish the Book of Mormon as well as study the New Testament. I can say we did all the things I was looking forward to. Vacation was fun, I was not pregnant and I did reach my personal fitness goals! We did not anticipate Danny having to leave for part of the summer but it turned out amazing and we're both so happy he was able to get this experience of a lifetime.

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This year I'm looking forward to hopefully moving to a different house. We still plan on staying in Provo but would like to be living with different circumstances (landlords and more space). As a family and individually we are studying the Book of Mormon again. I try to read and finish this book every year and have done so but this year will be special because it goes along with the Come Follow Me program. Danny will be traveling to London, California, Finland and Florida and I get to join him this summer when he goes to Finland! I am both very excited and very stressed for this trip. It will be fun to explore new places with him. I've never been to Europe and Danny and I have never flown together. We've gone on separate plane trips but never together so this will be a first. I'm also very stressed because I have never left the kids before. I don't even know who I fully trust to watch them so that will be a hard hurdle for me to overcome. We would also like to do a little mini trip somewhere close by with the children so that they can still get a little vacation break this year. I'm also looking to finally wean Grant and have him sleep trained so that it can be easier to leave him when the trip comes. Last year I said that I was looking forward to not being pregnant . . . well this year I'd be happy either way. Ideally I'd like to wait until after Finland but I feel ready for another spirit to join our family. Right after Grant was born I had a feeling where I just knew there would be at least one more. Danny just needs to decide if he's ready or not but even he feels like there is another one that needs to join us. Will that be this year? Who knows. Danny thinks it will be in three years haha. I guess we'll just have to see what this year holds for us. Either way I'm really looking forward to the memories that will be made this year. It's a start of a new decade and a start to a fresh beginning. I'm excited and happy.